I cannot believe I’ve not blogged
since April, oops!
In May my mum and dad came to
visit which was wonderful we had so much fun, but it didn’t help with my home
sick feeling. As much as living in California sounds great, take away friends
and family, that everyday support network, and its kinda hard work and a little
sad.
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Train Town, Sonoma, CA |
With determination and, well,
just being very outgoing, I managed to make Myles a couple of friends at his
gym class. I was motivated by the thought of him having no friends to celebrate
his birthday with in June.
After several weeks of hello and
the odd smile, I went for it and introduced myself. It paid off and we have
become friends with two of the families from the class. It made for a lovely
party and playdates since.
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Happy 2nd Birthday |
I also used the local Moms Club
to find friends. Yip I literally posted, hey I need friends! It worked and even
though I only had a couple of responses the ladies I met from it are proving to
be great friends, and their children get on so well with Myles.
I did notice though that everyone
is less inclined to plan here, which meant at times we would have very busy
days and then days of nothing. Going a week without any other adult company and
trying to entertain a very busy boy is hard work.
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School field trip, Artora Pumpkin Patch |
This prompted the decision for
Myles to start a day care twice a week. Oh my gosh, it’s one of the best
decisions for him we have made. Having started in August, he already has two
best friends, Maggy and Oliver. I frequently have his teacher telling me what
cheeky antics the three of them get up to in the day. It has also really helped with Myles’
talking, we were finding he was being lazy, the words were there but he wasn’t
bothering to try and use them, now we have to ask him to have quiet time!
I joined him on his first field
trip to a local pumpkin patch. It was such a fun morning, I loved seeing him
with his class mates and how he responded to his teachers (with hugs and
agreeing to anything they asked of him). It also meant I got to meet the moms
of his partners in crime.
They are fab ladies, we had the
pleasure of joining them for Halloween and hope to have more playdates, and
dinners soon.
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Trick or Treat |
Add in house warmings, ladies (and
gents) that lunch, house work and my projects and it feels like we are really
creating a life here.
I still miss home, friends and
family but I don’t feel so isolated and ready to jump on the next plane to
England!!
(Oh and we got pregnant, so expecting our own little Californian babe
early next year)!